A helping hand ...
As some of you know, I have been strugging with a fairly severe illness since Christmas. It has really helped me learn a couple of lessons.
1) Your true friends will stand by you no matter what the circumstance. You true accuaintences will just not ask. Your fake friends will disappear.
2) Some of the most beautiful moments in your life can happed as you cry.
3) Grief leading to acceptance is not just a process, its a cycle. It can move around like a target at the end of a dark tunnel. But! Eventually there is light, and if you can hang on until the end of the ride, the sun will shine again.
4) If someone offers their help, accept without question of motive. Anyone who is pure enough to offer their help and mean it will not judge.
5) It's more than okay to ask for help. At least one person will be there for you when you need them to be,
6) Being alone does not mean you have to be lonely. Learn to enjoy the silence and your life will move forward even if you are still standing still.
7) Tell people how you feel, and be honest about it. You never know when you will get another chance.
8) If you can see the sunset, then go do it. Appreciate the relativity of your experience and know that there is someone, even if there is only one, out there who knows what you are experiencing.
9) Asking for a helping hand is not askjing for a hand out. It is not noble to lose yourself in the details.
10) Stuff is just house cleaning. Your being is forever. Don;t get caught up on house keeping because at the end of the day, your house will still be dirty.
*Over & Out*
V
